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Elda Elizabeth (Routh) Eddleman
(1910 - 1999)

Submitted by her grandson,
Mark Ellsworth Hickman, PhD

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Stumble

Remembering our Cat

    Numerous times during the summer months, our three young daughters, and their Daddy and I, loved to go out in our back yard at eventide as then the high temperatures of the day had cooled, and we were enjoyably comfortable.

    That particular evening, the girls had spread their favorite Indian blanket on the grass and were lying on it and happy talking, while waiting for it to get dark enough to search for the first star. As long as it was light enough, their Daddy read the day's newspaper while I tried to do some much needed mending.

    Darkness soon draped the evening with night, and we put the mending and newspaper on a little table nearby.

    It was quite relaxing just to let go and listen to our very entertaining young girls who had by then happily discovered the first star and were chanting:

    Twinkle, twinkle little star.
    How I wonder what you are.
    Up above the world so high,
    like a diamond in the sky."


    But, before they were finished with their chant, a faint "meow" interrupted them!

    The sound was coming from the tall grass along the side of the road, and the girls ran to find where the "meow" was coming from. Winifred Jean spied the kitten first, but Elizabeth Ann picked it up. It was so very little and frightened, but a bit of cuddling and gentle stroking calmed it. Excitedly, they came running to their Daddy and me to show us the beautiful kitten. He truly was a picture with beige hair blended with a crop of white hair atop his head and an all-white front.

    It was evident that he was starved, so I told my girls to warm some milk for him, and that they could use the paste-board box on the back porch for his bed, "But as soon as he was in better condition," I warned them, "you must find someone who wants a nice pet," because we just couldn't get attached to another pet! You see, our beloved dog, Jack, had just been killed by a speeding car only a few weeks before, and after having him for almost eight years, it was so hard to give him up. We had bought the short-haired Fox Terrier when he was a mere puppy, and he became so endeared to us, not only as a loving pet, but our protector as well. The loneliness we experienced without him was just terrible!

    The girls used a baby blanket to line the box, and after he had lapped up several saucers of milk, they bedded him down on the warm soft blanket. He purred "thankfully" for the warm milk and the loving attention he was receiving, and he was soon fast asleep. The girls meant to carry out my wishes, but the following day they were worried because their new little kitty was just too, too loveable to part with. They discussed ways as to how to win me over (I was told later). Finally, Janice Sue suggested that they wait and hope I would give in -- mellow!

    Though it has been said that cats or kittens shouldn't be bathed, my girls decided the kitten needed a bath, and after they had dried him well, they tied a blue satin ribbon around his neck, and he was even more beautiful than when they found him.

    He followed me most everywhere I went, and I oft times stumbled over him, and this worried my girls, though they kept hopeful I would mellow.

    So, one day it did happen. I was taking our dry laundry off of the clothes line and I noticed that as I was going to an already mounded basket that the clothes were weaving. I couldn't imagine what was the cause until I bent over to pile my armful of clothes on the basket, and there was my answer to the weaving, for the kitty stuck it's head out of one of their Daddy's shirt sleeves, and what a darling sight he was! I pulled him out of the sleeve as I dropped my arm full of clothes on the other clothing. As I was lovingly petting him, out of nowhere it seemed, my girls came shouting, "He has won Mama over -- now can we keep the kitten?" After they had calmed down from that excitable moment, they immediately wanted to name him! Janice Sue suggested they find a cute French name from one of my French books, but Elizabeth Ann and Winifred Jean said because I had stumbled over him so much, why didn't we name him "Stumble?" So, "Stumble" he became!

    He was a wonderful pet and was so enjoyed by each one of us. He lived for eleven years, and he stayed so beautiful and became as fat as a "butter ball."

    Though the girls had enjoyed him while he was a frisky kitten, as he grew older, he preferred being near me. And, though I didn't want another pet, he became a very special one and I loved him very much!

    --by Elda Elizabeth (Routh) Eddleman (1910-1999)







The Skips and their Tree Hotel

(Squirrels as Neighbors)

    Sudbury's farm was just across the road to the east of our home, and through our picture window, we enjoyed many scenic views, one of which was the dense wooded area that divided his pastures. We loved the woods and often walked over to them. It was fascinating to meander through them. In the Spring, we picked lovely wild flowers, and come warmer weather, we found mushrooms [morels] -- not as many though as we found in the pastures. How we did love being close to nature like this. The eating of mushrooms was a rare treat!

    One morning, Daddy was by the picture window when he spied two squirrels. He assumed that they were searching for a nice tree home for a new family they would be raising this summer. There was a dilapidated tree in the pasture which was close to the road -- I don't believe it was over fifty feet away at the most. So many of this tree's limbs were broken off and all that remained were stubby pieces of the limbs. Though it was so very damaged, it made an ideal home for squirrels. Come March every year, a pair of squirrels would move in one of the knot holes of the ol' tree. You see, because of no foliage, the sun kept those stubs nice and warm so when the baby squirrels were able to come back in the sunshine with their parents, they did, and it was just fascinating watching them!

    So, it was a joy to see these two squirrels come to our beloved tree. In a short while, they, too, had baby squirrels. Again, it was so interesting watching their maturing and the play times.

    The father squirrel kept busy trekking to the woods to gather food for his family, so he was gone a great deal. Do you know that he made so many trips that he wore a path leading from that ol' tree to the woods!

    One the young ones were able to be moved from the "Tree Hotel," their mamma took them through a time of training. Up and down the tree they were encouraged to go -- numerous times a day. After a while, they were allowed to play on the ground -- around the tree -- but if one ventured to go abounds, the mamma would immediately make it retrace its steps.

    In early Fal, it was time they would go to the woods for protection from winterish weather. So, on the day for their departure, we felt so sad to see them leave as every morning we spent such a happy time watching their antics.

    The day that they left for the woods was something to see! The father and mother went down the tree first, and then their children came down -- one at a time -- excepting the last one. Apparently, he didn't want to leave his knot-hole home. Finally, his mamma grew out of patience, and she scurried up the tree. She got behind him and booted him down to the ground. Then the father took the lead and began following his little path that would lead them to their new home. Soon they would adjust and the forest would become a haven to them.

    For quite a number of years, we watched for other squirrel friends, and we were able to enjoy a number of other squirrel families. However, added harsh winters left the tree more and more weather beaten -- so much so that Farmer Sudbury decided he had better cut it down as he was fearful the neighboring children, who played in that meadow and about that tree all summer long, would get hurt were the old tree to tumble down. Though he was right, we were sad the day we watched him cut it down. It had become a landmark as it stood majestic-like year in and year out. It took a long time to get used to this loss. I would often look over to the stump from the old beloved tree and wondered if its ghost doesn't return from time to time, because it had human qualities wherein it provided many squirrel families a home and a haven for birds to bask in warm sunshine.

    The ol' tree was an example of worth of something that may almost be spent of its life.

    Regardless of how ailing one might be, if one has a loving heart, one never loses one's worth. After all, the warmth of love encompasses all needed and soothes lonely hearts and aching ones.

    Whether it is an old weather-beaten tree or a human being, the worth of either is how much love and warmth each have to offer others.

    --by Elda Elizabeth (Routh) Eddleman (1910-1999)







Spun Glory

    We had gone to Sudbury's woods to dig up a soft maple fledgling that we had discovered one day while meandering around in his woods. What a chore it was, digging it up from its firm holdings. One has to be so careful not to bruise its tender rootings. We had brought gunny sacks to lay this bit of nature's life on, then we put a great deal of earth's rich wood's dirt about its roots. We also filled a paste board box with the same type soil. Luckily, we had brought enough soil to well fill the deep cavity that we had dug before going after the little tree.

    Years later, when it had matured, it became a splendorous sight. It seemed unbelievable that that little whipit had so gracefully rewarded us. We appreciated its cooling shade, too, which we often sat under. Throughout its growing years, I would often talk to it and tell it how it would become one of the loveliest of trees, and how we loved it.

    It truly became a most beautiful tree -- and in the Fall when its leaves turned golden, it was literally breath-taking. I called it my "spun glory tree." For during those days it filled our home with a golden sheen that left one spellbound. Until the evening shadows came, one really dwelt in a vision of unreality. What a glorious tribute to God the giver of all life and to we who planted it and care for it with love. It truly was a most blessed reward.

    But, one springtime a tornado wind came over our roof top and pulled our beloved tree out of its earth's holding. It was too damaged to live. How sorrowful we were to lose our beautiful tree. It took a long while to be healed from our loss and I never knew until then how friendly a tree could become.

    Memory will ever remind me that God gave us a very special gift of our "spun glory tree."

    --by Elda Elizabeth (Routh) Eddleman (1910-1999)













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